Couples Therapy

This Again?

You and your partner keep arguing over the same issues. Even petty things.

You don’t feel heard. You’re not as close as you used to be.

It seems like you can never do anything right, so you’re starting to wonder if it’s time to call it quits.

Nothing you do seems to make a difference

It’s hard to get your partner to talk about their feelings. Sometimes you feel like a crazy person following them around trying to get them to talk.

You love them, but you’re at your wits’ end.

It’s starting to feel like you don’t even have a partner. You wonder how it got this bad.

Relationships are challenging

Most of the couples who come to see me are distressed and have been in a painful pattern of arguing all the time. It’s gotten so bad they even fight via text message.

Some couples seeking help have only been together for a little while – others have been married for decades.

All come seeking a way to have productive conversations and learn to disagree without causing harm to one another.

Fighting to Connect

Did you know that as human beings we’re hard-wired to try to connect with others?

When you fight with your partner, you’re distressed at feeling disconnected.

You are really trying your hardest to reconnect, but you don’t know how. I will provide you with the tools you need to reconnect and feel like a loving couple again.

Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT)

Using a technique called Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT), I help identify negative patterns of behavior that keep couples stuck and disconnected.

I will teach you skills to improve your communication and intimacy. Your disagreements will become less distressing, and you’ll find your way back to each other.

The good news is that if you’re reading this, you haven’t given up. You’re still invested in making this relationship work. It’s the perfect time to begin couples therapy.

Contact me to schedule your EFT Couples Session

Premarital Counseling

If you’re thinking of getting married or even moving in with your partner, I can help you iron out any kinks that you may be experiencing in your relationship. It’s like a check-up on your car before going on a long trip.

Usually, this process is short-term. I will help you consider some of the areas which couples in love often overlook – you know, the practical things like money, cultural differences, values, religion and children – all those things we’re often hesitant to discuss.

Let me help you begin your long-term relationship with a solid foundation of understanding and mutual respect. After all, you already love each other, right?

Schedule your premarital consultation now

Rekindle the flame

In couples therapy, you’ll learn how to communicate with each other so that you both feel heard and understood.

As your couples therapist, I will help you identify and work through ineffective patterns of behavior, including how to have a productive disagreement.

If you’re ready to have a deeper, more meaningful relationship, call (484) 840-3643 now to schedule a 15-minute consultation.